“Another completely unscientific and unresearched theory to add to the rest of the completely unscientific and unresearched theories presented today is that men who aren’t head over hills about the woman they’re with are more likely to do things that “unsettled” men do — i.e., cheat, be non-committal, stay emotionally unavailable, etc.”
——- This is something that I’ve known about myself for a while now,I have to be In-love , love you know ?.I tend to agree with this blogpost , most men I think settle in some ways , some say “oh , I think she might be the one” , instead of “she’s the one” , Some say “I think I can get used to her” ,That’s not gonna make it . I’m not saying its gotta be ‘love at first sight’ type shit. I’m just saying for some men , there won’t be alot of time for us to “grow” on each other , since the world is still spinning and all.
Goons, Thugs, Hoods… these men may not be the most educated, they may not be the most attractive, but they live life according to their own rules. These men don’t take shit or bite their tongue. They hustle by any means necessary and regardless of the situation they were born into they are going to get theirs. Goons are about that life which the average person looks down on. From the wise guys on Staten Island to the hustlers down in the 504, Goons are a catch 22. They’re the type of guys women claim not to want, but they’re the type of guys they usually fall for.
I think each of you believes that being gay is a “sin” — which in my mind is the first problem. Second you believe being gay is a “sin” on par with adultery and all the other sins in whose league its often mentioned. I think that’s problematic and antithetical to the ethic of love [of] Jesus’ teachings. Third, I think there is a blindness — an inevitable bigotry — in the belief that being [LGBT] by definition makes you a sinner. Since the bible has been similarly used to condemn blacks and women, just substitute black for gay and think how unacceptable is the notion that black folk are by definition “sinners.”
Michael Eric Dyson
I’m happy Obama endorsed gay marriage.I’m happy because it’s a bold move for any politician , must less the president of the united states , for that though he will undoubtedly lose votes.But what really gets my dick hard , is the fact he pissed of the church.
In our modern western society, there are three types of grown-ass adults you will run into on the dating scene: 1) The Trusting [unfortunately a very small percentage], (2) The Realist [a weird combination of pessimism and optimism] and (3) The insecure, distrusting Lunatic.
But what you don’t want to do is confuse The Realist and The Lunatic, because they are very different in their own ways despite the few similarities. See, The Realist is the person who doesn’t overcommit in one way or the other, because they know and understand the reality of cheating, so they hope for the best but prepare for the worst. The Lunatic, on the other hand, is incredibly insane because they really feel like they can CONTROL the cheating from ever happening [where The Realist resigns themselves to the fact it can happen no matter what they do], but even worse, people with trust issues are severely unequipped with dealing with the mere IDEA that cheating is going on – and when MEN act like this to their women, they can be EXTREMELY VOLATILE.
As much as we all would like to be in a relationship with The Trusting person who gives us all benefit of the doubt until we prove we don’t deserve it, the fact is many of us don’t deserve to date that person, because so many of us are NOT that person our damn selves.
G-Dep , real name Trevelle Coleman turned himself in last year and confessed to the mugging and murder. Coleman said he confessed to make things right with God.
G-Dep is an idiot , fuck your feelings. .
He confessed to a murder LAST year , that happened 20 years ago ? What took god so long.I guess you can say he did the “noble , righteous” thing by confessing his sins. God , God , God . . I wonder how god feels about G-dep leaving his wife (who begged him not to confess) and his two sons . I have no doubt that leaving those boys without a father will do more damage to them , than you having to keep your secret til you die , will do to you . You selfish fuck.
Download Or Read The ‘Brilliant” Book By The Even More Brilliant Author Steve Harvey. I’ve Had The Book For A While Now & Have Only Been Able To Stomach The First 30 Pages . It`s Your Turn .
I’m confident that I’ll make it to 2013 without having to change my Facebook relationship status.
Jane: All I can think about is having an affair, I see them everywhere.
Roger: You never cheated on me ?
Jane: There was one kiss , but I stopped it.Then I was mad at you because you didn’t appreciate it , even though you didn’t know about it.
Single Person Who Is Basically In A Relationship / PTSD
1. Introverts lack social skills.
- We don’t lack social skills. We’re just environmentally challenged sometimes. For me, the more crowded the room gets and the louder the music blared, the less interest I have in carrying on any type of extended conversation.
2. Introverts are shy.
- The definition of shy and got the following:
Having or showing nervousness or timidity in the company of other people.
- Introverts aren’t scared of people or interaction. We actually enjoy talking and observing, and can probably tell you more about yourself than you can about us.
3.Introverts don’t have game or know how to approach the opposite sex.
- A good number of women I know who’ve dated introverted dudes said it took time for the guy to grow on them (no innuendo). That’s not an accident. After all, we’re some of the greatest tricksters (not necessarily a bad thing) out there. As I noted above, we extract a lot of information from people without revealing much about ourselves, then we charm our way to your hearts 1-on-1.
4.Introverts are boring.
- Fun is relative. So is adventure. If you’re looking for someone to climb the Himalayas with you and your high strung friends, then party with the locals over a meal of boar meats and field mice patties, an introvert probably isn’t the one for you. But if you’re cool with small group outings, dinners, house parties, game nights, and adventures that don’t always require working the room with faux-interest in what other people are saying, then we can have some fun.